Have you ever imagined what it would feel like if Jesus Himself sat across from you at your dinner table — not judging your food choices, not tallying your portions — but simply delighting in being with you?
What if, instead of that nagging inner critic replaying your meal, you sensed peace… presence… and unconditional love?
This week on Nourished to Bloom, we continue our 40 Days to Food Freedom journey by moving from detachment to relationship. After loosening the ropes of distraction, control, and diet culture, we ask a deeper question:
What are we attaching to instead?
Because food freedom isn't just about breaking habits. It's about learning to eat in Christ's presence.
In this episode, we explore how meals can shift from performance to communion — from anxiety to worship.
✨ The Power of Presence – What changes when we imagine Jesus actually sitting at our table?
✨ Meals in the Gospels – Jesus shared bread constantly. Meals weren't moral battlegrounds — they were places of connection, celebration, and being known.
✨ The Inner Critic vs. Christ's Voice – When the mental grading starts ("I ate too much" / "I should've done better"), we pause and ask: Would Jesus say this to me?
✨ From Diet Culture to Communion – We untangle how control and food anxiety distract us from true peace.
✨ A Sacred Practice – Choosing one meal a day to unplug, slow down, and eat with awareness of Christ's presence.
This episode is a gentle invitation to reimagine your table.
When we eat with gratitude instead of fear… When we slow down instead of rush… When we release self-evaluation and rest in God's gaze…
Our meals become acts of worship.
Fasting, feasting, discipline — they still have a place. But now they're rooted in love, not fear.
🌱 Your Invitation This Week
• Choose one meal a day to eat in Christ's presence. • Put your phone away. • Silence the mental commentary. • Notice your hunger, fullness, and gratitude. • When the inner critic speaks, ask: Would Jesus say that to me?
Freedom isn't just loosening ropes.
Let's rise together — anchored not in control, but in communion.
You were made to bloom. 🌸
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So I want you to play along with this scenario for a minute. Use your
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imagination, if you will. Have you ever thought about how
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differently you might approach eating, or you might approach
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your meals, if you knew that Jesus was going to
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be the guest at your dinner table, sitting right across from
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you, not judging or evaluating what or
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how much you were eating, but just being present and sharing that
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meal with you? So often our meals
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are rushed or distracted, or we're filling that
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quiet with that inner self-critic that's so harsh
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and judgmental about what and how much we're eating.
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But in the gospels, we see something different. We see that
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Jesus shared meals with many different people,
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not as a sense of performance, but to promote communion
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and relationship. So what if food freedom
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isn't just about loosening the rope of attachment to food
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and diet culture, but what if we need to loosen that
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rope to learn how to eat
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resting in his presence? That our meals can even be a time
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to connect and deepen our relationship with the Lord.
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So today we're talking about what it looks like to invite Jesus to your
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table and how that might really change everything.
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Welcome to the Nourish to Bloom podcast, where your faith meets your
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health. I'm your host, Kara Trocta, a registered dietitian and
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certified Catholic coach, and I'm here to help you cultivate a deeper connection
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with your body, your spirit, and the nourishment that sustains them
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both. In a world filled with noise and
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confusion about food, health, and body image, this podcast
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offers truth and healing from a Christ-centered perspective.
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Together, we'll untangle the deep roots of diet culture and discover what
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it means to truly care for ourselves through joyful
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nourishment of mind, body, and soul. We're here to dive into
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the transformative power of intuitive eating coupled with the rich teachings of our
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Christian faith. With every episode, I'll be cheering you on,
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offering insights, inspiration, and practical tools to help
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you heal your relationship with food and embrace the beauty
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of your body as a temple of the Holy Spirit with
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confidence and courage that can only be found in Christ.
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Join me as we journey together towards a more holistic approach to wellness,
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one that honors the wisdom of your body as God's creation,
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the teachings of our faith, and the unique purpose you're called to
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fulfill. You were made to bloom,
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to come into full beauty and health in order to bear good fruit
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for the Lord with your life. So if you're ready to nourish your body,
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feed your soul, and bloom into the best version of yourself, then
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you're in the right place, and I'm so happy you're here.
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Welcome to Nourish to Bloom, where every day is a sacred
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invitation to thrive. Hello
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there, welcome back to the Nourish to Bloom podcast.
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Happy to have you here this week. So over the
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last couple weeks, we've been talking about those ropes those
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strings, those tethers over our hearts and our minds.
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The small strings, those thick cords, just
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those attachments that are quietly, or maybe
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not so quietly, tethering our hearts, keeping us distracted or
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confused or overwhelmed. Things around
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food freedom, around diet culture, about what we're eating, how
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to eat, our Lenten fast, what we're doing with our lives,
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just kind of all the things. We probably may be
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realizing that we have several attachments. One
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that kind of came up for me today was just this attachment of
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control. So I'm actually ahead
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of the game and recording this podcast early because
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for a good portion of March my family and I will
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be in Rome, and so I am trying
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to work ahead and, um, ensure that we keep up with our 40-day
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food freedom journey. Um, but as I
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sat just reflecting on scripture and reading this morning,
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I felt that overwhelm of all the things that I had to do in order
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to get ready for this trip, in addition to all the things that I have
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to do in order to just keep our house functioning for
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the time like that we're living in it until we leave, right? It's not like
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just because we take a trip, we, um,
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you know, and we're planning for it, we can kind of, uh,
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neglect or forget about the other normal things that we have to do.
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But, um, I was reading this reflection
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and it came across— it was really a scripture
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reflection on, uh, the widow
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woman who had a almost empty
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jar of flour and how
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she was challenged to trust in the Lord, that the Lord would provide. And that,
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you know, she went and she did as she was supposed to do, and the
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Lord provided, right? And so I was kind of thinking about my empty jar of
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flour and how so often when I see like I'm
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running out of something, like time, or out of control,
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I tend to fill my jar with things like overwhelm or
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um, worry, anxiety, those kind of things. But when
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I turned to the Lord, he's going to fill that with the
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things that are necessary in order for me to accomplish these things,
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right? And so that just kind of led me to recognizing when these,
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these attachments to control,
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um, really start to pop up in my life. So quick side
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note on that, but wanted to share that story. But if we get back to
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our, our Lenten journey, we've
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asked questions along the way of like, what has too much authority in our lives?
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What are we clinging to? And then what happens when we
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loosen those tethers, um, the ones that show up
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as noise or distraction or control?
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So now the next kind of logical question is,
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when we loosen this tether, what
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does rising look like?
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What does rising look like, right? We have
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loosened the control, and
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if we go back to that reflection from St. John of the Cross,
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we know that when those tethers are lifted, the bird will
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rise. And what does rising to the Lord look like for us in our lives?
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Because while in Lent we're learning to detach from certain things,
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it's not— that's not the, the like end of it, right? The
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point of detachment, what is to reorient towards God,
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right? And so how can we do this in the sense of when we're looking
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at things like food freedom and our relationship with food and
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our body? And that's why I think it's a fun kind of thing
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to look at today of specifically our meals
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and how mealtime can be something where we
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tend to, to feel like we have a sense of control
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of— around, like, food and,
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and dieting and, and everything, right? But so often
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we feel like we can have this sense of control as far as what's on
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our plate, but yet, have you ever finished a meal and immediately started
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replaying it in your head? Like, "I shouldn't have eat that,"
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or "I ate too fast," or "I'll do better tomorrow."
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Or maybe you've run— rushed through your lunch just standing at the counter
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barely tasting it, just kind of shoveling it in your mouth, already thinking about the
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next thing to do on your list. So let me ask you something.
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What if instead— or what would this look like? What would shift
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if Jesus had been sitting at the table with you?
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Not as a judge, not as a food critic, not as someone
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keeping score, but as someone who just delights
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in being with you. He's sitting there across from
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you watching you butter the bread, or maybe
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watching you hesitate before you eat dessert. Maybe he's
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watching you eat quickly between carpool and baseball practice.
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How would you feel if you had that sense of presence
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that Jesus was sharing that meal with you? Would you feel
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shame? Would you feel exposed?
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Would you feel evaluated, or
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perhaps maybe you would feel known. Maybe it brings on almost
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an instant sense of peace to imagine
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Jesus sitting there with you sharing that meal. We
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see it through the gospels that Jesus shared meals all the time,
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and when he does— when he was there, he wasn't hovering over plates, he wasn't
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shaming the portions of what people ate, he wasn't measuring worth by what
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someone ate. He was just present. He ate with tax
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collectors, he ate with sinners, with Pharisees,
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with friends. He multiplied some bread,
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he cooked fish for his disciples, he turned water into
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wine. I mean, I don't know about you, but those would be some really awesome
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dinner experiences. But food wasn't a moral
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battlefield in his presence. It was simply a place of worship
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and communion. A place,
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you know, where people could come together and be nurtured
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and be cared for, not just physically but
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mentally and spiritually also.
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But somewhere along the way, for many of us, we began
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treating food like it's a performance—
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that we eat good, maybe we feel virtuous.
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Or if we eat bad, we feel guilty. If we
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overeat, maybe we hide in shame. Or if we restrict
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or stay quote unquote on track, we feel proud.
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But that takes away that, that nourishment, that, that
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sense of communion and relationship that meals
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can have. It just becomes an evaluation
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of you trying to measure
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being able to meet an unrealistic societal cultural
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standard. And so for
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some of you, maybe that evaluation is the rope that's
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tethering you, that constant inner commentary,
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the mental grading, the 'I'll do better tomorrow,' or 'If I could just
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get this figured out.' So what if this week, instead
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of focusing on what you're eating you focused on
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who you're eating with?
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Before your meal, pause for a few seconds and invite
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the Lord to share that meal with you. Don't rush,
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rush the blessing. Just a real pause and
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picture Jesus at your table.
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Instead of watching your macros, instead of calculating your proteins,
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just be present with him as you eat that meal.
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Think about what he might say. Here, receive this gift
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of food. Slow down.
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Enjoy. I'm here.
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You don't need to rush. You don't need to prove
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anything. Because when
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we learn to honor that hunger and eat and fuel
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and nourish our bodies, It's an act of
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stewardship. But we can even go
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deeper, and by inviting Jesus and,
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and his presence into our meals, we, we can
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really turn our meals into an act of worship.
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Worshiping him for his presence,
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worshiping him out of gratitude and thanksgiving for the blessings
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of the food that he has provided for us.
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When you receive food with gratitude instead of fear,
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when you slow down instead of spiral,
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and when you stop negotiating with yourself,
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you're learning to practice this ordered
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love, and food becomes what it was meant to be. Instead
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of food becoming the priority or the main thing, You're
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reordering your meals to center around love
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and communion and relationship. And then food
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reorients to what it was meant to be: a gift,
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fuel, communion, celebration,
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sustenance. It's
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no longer your savior that if you could just eat right and your
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body looked a certain way, then you would be healthy and happy.
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It's not the enemy because you ate a certain
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way, and it's certainly not your identity.
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What you eat and who you— what your body looks like
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does not define your worth or your value.
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There will be days of fasting, and there will be days of abstinence
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still, and there will still be intentional sacrifice,
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but this It doesn't mean that we're abandoning this
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discipline. It just means that our discipline around these things is rooted in
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love, not fear. And then so fasting
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becomes relational. We fast to make space,
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we feast to celebrate, and we receive to
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remember. And Jesus is present in all of these.
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So here's your invitation for this week: choose just one meal a day
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just one, and intentionally eat with awareness of Christ's
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presence. Put your phone down, don't multitask,
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turn off your inner self-critic. Notice your
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hunger, notice your fullness, notice
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what is on your plate. Use your senses,
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pace yourself, enjoy it.
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Notice any thoughts that you have, and when your inner critic starts you're speaking,
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ask, would Jesus say this thing to me?
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And if not, maybe that's something you need to let go.
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Maybe that is an attachment that needs to be untethered,
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because freedom isn't just loosening the ropes.
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It's about peace and it's about presence. It's not about
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perfection.
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So over these 40 days, we're untethering from these attachments,
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but in our rising from these attachments,
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we're anchoring ourselves to something stronger, to the
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Lord. And so next week we're going to talk about
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what happens when food becomes an emotional comfort and how we
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can gently redirect that attachment without shame.
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So I hope that you have beautiful meals
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with Jesus this week. I thank you so much for spending this time with me.
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Um, I hope you have a beautiful and blessed week. Remember, beauty held is a
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seed, beauty shared is the flower. It is your time to bloom. Take
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care and God bless.