Hey friend—are you doing "all the right things" with food… yet still feeling stuck because the scale hasn't moved?
Welcome back to Nourished to Bloom. Today we're unpacking a quiet but heavy struggle so many women carry: experiencing real wins with intuitive eating and healthier habits—less food noise, more peace, more freedom—yet still believing that weight loss is the final measure of success.
In this episode, we're naming that tension honestly and compassionately. We're talking about why it's possible to feel healthier, more at ease, and more connected to God—while still doubting ourselves because the number on the scale hasn't changed. And we're inviting the Lord into that space with us.
Together, we explore how diet culture has shaped our beliefs, why weight is only one (and often not the most meaningful) indicator of health, and how Scripture calls us to a much richer definition of worth and success.
✨ What we dive into in this episode:
🌿 Real stories from coaching conversations with women who feel more peaceful with food—but still question their progress 🧠 Why decades of diet culture conditioning make weight loss feel like proof of health and worth ⚖️ The truth about health being multi-dimensional—physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual 📖 A Gospel-centered reframe using Matthew 5:13–16: You are the light of the world—no conditions attached 🕯️ A powerful glow-in-the-dark analogy from a homily that reminds us where our radiance really comes from 💛 Encouragement to celebrate freedom, peace, and gentler habits—even if weight loss hasn't shown up 🙏 A loving reminder: when your "glow" feels dim, it's not a sign to try harder—it's an invitation to draw closer to God
If this episode stirred something in you—if you're craving freedom from food and body obsession and want support unlearning old beliefs—you don't have to walk this journey alone.
📣 Ready for deeper support? Email kara@karatrochta.com with the keyword COACHING to set up a free coaching session. This is a no-pressure conversation to help you discern next steps toward healing, peace, and faith-rooted wellness.
You are already light. You are already worthy. Let's keep learning how to shine—together. 🌱✨
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Are you letting the number on the scale rob you of
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progress or success? Are you letting it
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dictate your worth? Is it one of
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those situations where every other part of your life says that you are
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enough, you are doing great, like you got this, but
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there's that little noise in your voice that says,
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but you didn't lose the weight? And that you let that
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thing define every part of your life. That you
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would be happier, that you would be more successful, that you would be
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more worthy, that the changes and the progress that you made
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would actually be meaningful if only the number on the
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scale would budge. Y'all, today we're unpacking that quiet
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struggle that so many women face, one that I experienced
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myself. That when you have these real wins
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with maybe intuitive eating or building healthier habits or
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really following your vocation, yet still believing that
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weight loss is that final proof of health
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or proof of worthiness. We're going to look at what
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scripture says and why this belief runs so deep in
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our minds and how God invites us to step into
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a truer freer definition of success.
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Welcome to the Nourish to Bloom podcast, where your faith meets your
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health. I'm your host, Kara Trocta, a registered dietitian and
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certified Catholic coach, and I'm here to help you cultivate a deeper connection
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with your body, your spirit, and the nourishment that sustains them
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both. In a world filled with noise and.
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Confusion about food, health, and body image, this podcast
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offers truth and healing from a Christ-centered perspective.
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Together, we'll untangle the deep roots of diet culture and discover what
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it means to truly care for ourselves through joyful
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nourishment of mind, body, and soul. We're here to dive into
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the transformative power of intuitive eating coupled with the rich teachings of
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our Christian faith. With every episode, I'll be cheering you.
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On, offering insights, inspiration, and practical tools to
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help you heal your relationship with food and embrace the
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beauty of your body as a temple of the Holy Spirit with
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confidence and courage that can only be found in Christ.
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Join me as we journey together towards a more holistic approach to wellness,
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one that honors the wisdom of your body as God's creation,
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the teachings of our faith, and the unique purpose you're called to
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fulfill. You were made to bloom,
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to come. Into full beauty and health in order to bear good fruit
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for the Lord with your life. So if you're ready to nourish your body,
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feed your soul, and bloom into the best version of yourself, then
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you're in the right place, and I'm so happy you're here.
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Welcome to Nourish to Bloom, where every day is a sacred
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invitation to thrive.
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Hey there, welcome back to the Nourish to Bloom podcast. So happy to be
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spending some time here with you this week, and I am really
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glad you're here today because this episode is
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for you if you are the woman who is doing do so many
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things right in her life and yet still feel like she's
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falling short just because of the number on the scale.
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I want to start by saying that this is something that has been coming
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up again and again in coaching conversations lately.
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I do a lot of work with women who are experiencing real
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tangible wins around intuitive eating and in their health,
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things like they're able to eliminate
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that, like, food noise in their head. So, like, food
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just feels quieter. They're not constantly thinking about
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what they should or shouldn't eat. They can go out to dinner and
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actually enjoy it. Maybe they're overeating less,
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or emotional eating isn't running the show anymore.
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There's just this overall, you know, more sense
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of peace, more freedom. More trust in their
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body. Like, they tell me, I feel better,
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I do, I feel better. And yet there's this lingering
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thought that pops up underneath it all,
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but I haven't lost any weight. And so they start to
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doubt if they're even successful, if they've even made progress.
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Has it even been worth it because they haven't lost weight? Or it's,
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you would think that because I'm doing all of these things that are good and
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right that I would lose weight. I
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hear it all the time. And if that thought has crossed your mind,
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even quietly, you are not alone.
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It's so hard because
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I have so many women who tell me, I feel better, I'm more at peace
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with food, I'm healthier in so many ways.
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But then it's like that pause that comes up, right? Like this tension.
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And it's like, I still believe that If I were really healthy, I'd be
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losing this weight. And I think that we really need to
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pause in this moment, 'cause it's an important moment, and
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really look at the truth of this. Because what's happening
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when this comes up in your life, it isn't failure, it's not
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a lack of discipline, it's not that you're doing it wrong.
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The real root of this is it's old conditioning.
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It's the way that you've been programmed to think, because
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diet culture has whispered in your ears for
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years, in your ears for years,
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and it's planted these really deep-rooted beliefs.
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For some, it's been decades that you have been conditioned to believe
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that you're only healthy if you lose weight,
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or you're only healthy if your BMI says that
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you're not overweight or obese. Like, we've been
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taught explicitly and implicitly that weight
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loss equals health, thinness equals virtue,
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a changing body equals progress. But even when
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we're experiencing behaviors that are healing, even
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when our relationship with food and our body is healing,
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these beliefs can linger. But
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we have to remember that if we look at it as simple
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as diet culture makes it seem, that if you eat less
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you'll lose weight, then that would work for everybody,
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right? But it doesn't, because we are each individual
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human bodies. So I want to invite
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you into this moment where we're going to speak clearly and
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compassionately Because we know both clinically and
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experientially, the things that we've experienced, that
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dieting promotes weight cycling. Yeah, maybe you have had
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some weight loss when you've been on a diet, but the thing is it's not
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sustainable, and you've probably gained all that weight back and maybe
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even more. And the research tells us
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that weight cycling, this losing, gaining, losing, gaining, gaining,
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is associated with worse health outcomes. Than if we
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were to maintain one weight. And here's—
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I mean, the big thing, y'all: weight is only one indicator of
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health, and it's usually not the most helpful one. It's
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usually not the most truthful one. We have to
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remember that our health is multi-dimensional— physical,
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mental, emotional, spiritual. We are an integrated
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person, and yet we've reduced our health
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down to a number.
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But here's where our faith invites us into something deeper. Like,
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yes, of course the Lord cares about our bodies. He created them,
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he designed them, and he calls us to steward them,
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to nourish them, and to care for them. But scripture
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is very clear that God is far more concerned with the state of our souls
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than the size of our bodies. And when we continue to tie
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our worth or our success or even our holiness to weight
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loss, we're unintentionally placing the scale in a position
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of being an idol, a place where it was
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never meant to be.
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And so I want to kind of anchor this episode in the
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gospel from Matthew 5, verses 13 through
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16. Where Jesus tells us, you are the
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salt of the earth, you are the light of the world,
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your light shines before others.
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Notice what Jesus doesn't say in this scripture. He
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doesn't say, you are the light of the world once you fix yourself,
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you are the light of the world once your body looks different,
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you are the light of the world once you hit a certain number.
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He simply says, you are, you are the light of the
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world right here, right now, in the body that
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you're living in, just as you are. Y'all, your
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light isn't something that you earn. It's something that is a gift. You
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receive it, and then you're reflecting it onto others.
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This weekend, this was the gospel reading, and our priest
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shared in his homily something that I felt was just so
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impactful, especially when we get tied up in this, you
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know, running to the scale for
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validation, or putting on a pair of jeans that are a certain
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size for validation. We are putting it all in the wrong place.
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And so in his homily, he started off talking about
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glow-in-the-dark toys, and you know how as children we all
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had glow-in-the-dark toys. You know, maybe some had GI Joe glow-in-the-darks,
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or, you know, like rainbow ponies that glowed in the dark, or
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frisbees, like those kind of things, right? And what he said was
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really very simple but very profound. When we think about these glow-in-the-dark
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toys, they don't just glow on their own, right? They're not
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battery operated. They're fueled
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by light, right? And when they start to fade, it doesn't mean that they're
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broken. It doesn't mean that they just need to try harder.
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They just need to be recharged by a bright light. So when you
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go and you place these toys under a light, they're recharged and then they glow
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brighter. And he reminded us that this is
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us, that when we feel dim, when we feel
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discouraged, when we're starting to doubt our worth or our progress,
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this is not a sign that we're failing. It's a sign that we need to
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run to the Father to be renewed,
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to be reminded where our light comes from. Y'all, our
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radiance doesn't come from weight loss, and it doesn't come from having
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everything under control, and it doesn't come from perfection.
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It comes from being close to the light himself.
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So if you're in this season where you are feeling more
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peace around food, or maybe you've created some habits
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that are gentler and more sustainable for whatever phase of life that
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you're in, maybe you're less controlled by eating you're able to
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be more present in your life, but you're still waiting
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on weight loss, I really
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want to lovingly say this, that you are not almost successful.
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You are successful. You are progressing, and you are still
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unlearning the deep roots and the years
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of conditioning from diet culture. You're learning how to
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separate your health from thinness and the false
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idols of the world. You're learning how to separate your worth from
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your weight, and you're learning how to separate your
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holiness from having this under control. And that
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takes time. So today, instead of, you
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know, beating yourself up because you haven't seen the number on the scale change,
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really take a minute to look at the progress. Where has your
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freedom grown? Where has peace taken root?
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And where has God been quietly restoring you?
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And if your glow maybe feels dim right now, if
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you have these doubts creeping back in, and
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gosh, if that scale feels louder than it should, it's not
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a call to try another diet. It's not a call to eat
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less food. It's not a call to do anything more. It's
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just an invitation to come closer, to let yourself be
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recharged by truth, and to remember that your
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worth comes from him alone and it's not something that you have to earn.
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And to let your light shine— it's already within you,
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you just have to let it shine.
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Y'all, if this episode stirred something in you, I really
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want you to know that you don't have to navigate this unlearning alone.
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If you are feeling like you are making progress in your life, or you really
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want to undo this, this association, this
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validation that you have with the scale,
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this is exactly the kind of work that we do in coaching.
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It's really this gentle dismantling of old
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beliefs, learning to strengthen our trust
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and anchoring our health in God's truth rather than the
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fears that the world promotes. So if
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that is something that you desire, simply send me an email,
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kara@karatrocta.com, put coaching
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in the subject, and we'll take it from there. Have an honest conversation,
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because I really believe, and I want you to know, that you are already
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the light that the world needs. You just have to
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find the way to shine it, and this is your
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moment to do that. So just remember,
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your worth is not. Tied to any sort of weight
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that. You have gained or lost. You
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are simply worthy because you are God's beloved daughter.
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I hope you have a beautiful and blessed week, and remember,
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beauty held is a seed, beauty shared is the flower. It is your time to
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bloom. Take care, and I'll see you next week. Bye!